Here’s the secret….every teen WANTS the satisfaction of knowing what they want, and then getting it!
In fact, we ALL want over the holidays are good feels! We want the feeling of certainty of knowing what will light us up, the variety and excitement of something NEW, and the certainty of feeling SATISFIED with what we get!
Here’s what’s difficult….teens are even more susceptible than adults to the negative emotions that come up during the holiday season:
- Not knowing what they want
- Wanting something that they believe they can’t have
- Wanting something they they KNOW they won’t get
- Feeling entitled to something and having to settle for something less
- Being completely dis-satisfied with what they get because it doesn’t meet their expectations
Wanting is hard because it can lead to disappointment and rejection. Sometimes, it’s easier to not want anything. BUT, if we lose touch with what we WANT, then we miss out on the very feeling that can compel us to action. WANTING can be extremely motivating!
Settle in to WANTING something BIG!
Want an extraordinary life!
Want to feel connected to something bigger than yourself!
Want to know how to become your own best friend!
Want to know yourself a bit more deeply!
When we focus on expanding our view from the material wants, and really allow ourselves to set our vision on something greater, then we can follow the clues laying all around us to lead us in the right direction!
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